I am on a mission. He and his family don’t know it yet but I am going to find them that house. Not necessarily the palatial one they left behind, but one that — with a little elbow grease from their very capable patriarch — gives them that sense of pride and stability that he’s been lamenting the loss of since his move to Silicon Valley.
"I hate paying someone else’s mortgage," he says revealing the tip of the iceberg. The chord I struck continues through the screen door and the oven, both of which he’d gladly fix himself if this were his castle. But what sticks in his craw the most is that he doesn’t feel like he’s given his family the ability to set roots between the uncertainty of rents or whether the landlord will move back into the house.
He doesn’t think he can afford a house of the size he wants in the Bay Area. Exotic loans are out of the question: while the law may not hold me responsible, my conscience does. Plus, I believe he’s too savvy to be led into one by an unscrupulous mortgage officer.
And we both know that Silicon Valley real estate is expensive. He did the reverse move from a place where a lot of folks go to lower their cost of living, and since the market there isn’t strong, he’s biding his time on his previous house. He’s gutting out the pain so that he’ll be able to make good long-term personal and financial decisions.
That’s why I’m on a mission. It involves one extra question at an open house, that one extra phone call, another drive into the neighborhood to uncover the right opportunity. The cumulation of single drops of water that form the falls — perhaps not at Niagra — but somewhere he can call home.
He needs to stop renting — not like people need food, or clothing, or other people. He needs to stop renting because he believes it’s integral to helping his family lead better lives. People have different reasons; the question becomes how to make it happen.
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May.03.2007 [
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