It can happen to anyone, no matter what number you offer or what terms you’re willing to agree to. It even happens to folks here in Silicon Valley who make above-asking offers — actually, it happens more than you’d expect for the most in-demand homes. So, there’s nothing more risky than falling in love with a home before escrow closes.
It’s okay to show how much you want that home in your reservation price, and even in your offer if you choose to, but once that offer is made there are so many factors beyond your control.
While you’re mentally moving your furniture into the home, the owners are evaluating what’s best for them, and even after a good informational interview, you still might not be aware of all the factors that go into their decision to accept, counter, or reject.
"I’d rather look at the letters than the offer sheets right now," he said. I do my fair share of number-crunching, but as a person who tries to pay attention to people’s emotions, I understood why he’d feel that way. Their family didn’t really need the money — there’d been so much appreciation in their Silicon Valley home that they were well past the number they’d hoped for. And since this was "back in the day", all of their incoming offers were non-contingent.
It wasn’t a matter of real estate anymore. Remember the college admissions process? For this family, it wasn’t only about SAT scores or GPAs: who their home should go to was about the story behind the paper. So if you’ve given it your best effort, in terms of both your number and non-monetary factors owners consider, and your offer wasn’t accepted, what are your options?
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September 15, 2007 |
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